How to get over a relationship !

When we fall in love, we don't envisage the break, so when that arrives, we feel a shock, We have that impression that nothing goes right, and that pushes us to feel depressed.
So, to get over this relationship, we have to pass by various steps, to feel better.

The first step it's to accept the suffering, Hey yes, when we are in couple with somebody this person occupies a big part of our life, we share with it most of our time, we think about him all the time, and when this person is not any more there, it is normal to feel a empty, a suffering, thus it is necessary to speak about it with persons who shall listen to you, cry if it can help you to feel better , delete his sms, his photos of your pc, it is a little bit commonplace but that makes the good.

The second step it's to continue to believe, not only in love but also in our life, our projects, a break is not the end of the world, but that can be a motivation to forge ahead, to get involved in our work, to see again our priorities, and put a lot into our dreams.

The third step it's to establish a balance sheet of our relation, to ask the right questions, to make the list of what went wrong in our relationship, to try to understand what was the cause of the break; and especially what we have to change in us, because we know it quite we aren't perfect !

The fourth step it is to accept the break, that was not well, that couldn't work, thus we move we try to forget and this by making the other thing, we spend more time with our friends, we go to the movies, we make projects of future, we try to carry out all those small desires, that we used to dream about.

The fifth and last step is to move on, to take back our life in hands, to find the taste of the happiness, we get ready to a new relation, but this time no doubt to make the bad choice, take your time, do not throw yourself in the arms of the first to come, and I am sure that you well find the good person, the one who is going to make you forget your suffering, and who will help you to build your life, not in sole, but in duet!

Enjoy your life !
xoxo